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1. [color=darkred]Nick:
2. Klasa i spec: (+gs, pve i pvp)
3. Alty: (również podać spec i gs)
4. Staż w WoWie:
5. Znajomość taktyk:
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7. Aktywność: (w jakich godzinach zazwyczaj grasz i jak często)
8. Kilka zdań o sobie. Dlaczego chcesz być członkiem właśnie marines?:
9. Kto z obecnych członków marines może cię polecić?:
10.Czy przeczytałeś uważnie, zapamiętałeś, akceptujesz i zobowiązujesz się do przestrzegania regulaminu marines?:
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Nutrition can be a useful thing. No really, it can be. In terms of taking better care of yourself through a healthier diet to make yourself healthier is truly a useful thing. To start learning some basics as to how to make this work for you, refer to the tips below.
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Maybe the problem job, boss or annoying coworkers, financial problems, family and other important issues to the pressure of living increases. Unfortunately, not all women think sex is an effective solution to address the problem and choose a temporary move away from the couple and SEX.
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► HORMONE OF HIGH SHBG
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The hormone (which is released when mothers breastfeed) lose sexual interest. Do not be surprised if you choose a partner when the time away from feeding the baby.
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Inability to handle the level of intimacy (fantasy and techniques that are too high) with a partner during sex, a reason that appears most frequently in women so lazy to get laid.
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► HORMONES LOW
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A beach wedding can be made a memorable experience by setting up something nice activities along the beach which is playful and fun not only for kids but also for all the guests present their there are many things you can do to have fun and make your every moment enjoyable along the beach this big day of your life buy setting up activities and fun programs for elders friends relatives and everybody present their let your marriage be the most memorable one along the beach where its freshness makes everyone feel to be in it and enjoy being on your wedding ideas and sharing their gratitude towards you and your family also. A beach wedding can be a different style wedding you can get married in a pretty and beautiful gown and the latest trend is simple yet eye catchy and beautiful and thus it would match the place you are in and automatically will give a feeling of being in a heaven.
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Everywhere you go, you find articles which tells you how to improve your life, books telling you what you have not been doing for your life to be what you want it to be, and pamphlets to meetings to discuss those books, what you do not come across often is what not to do.
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Anything is possible for those who dream - and do. You can dream of being an astronaut, but it also requires that you work your butt off to get into the space program. You can imagine being a stand up comic,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but if you never take an improv class or write material or go to open mic night, you will stay stuck in Imagination Land. You can envision yourself in any career or capacity,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but then you have do something about it.
I am continually in awe of the unfolding of possibilities. It's always our choice to open up to them (even if it seems a bit scary) or we can close ourselves off. The latter is the road most taken. Playing it safe is how we are taught. I don't think Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Oprah, or any actor, singer, performer,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], athlete, author,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], speaker, inventor,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], leader, business owner, or anyone you admire, got there by playing it safe.
First we dream, then we do.
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People are afraid to dream. We are trained to stay small, to get along, to get by,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and just exist. Blah. Where's the fun in that?
When is the last time you said, and believed, "Anything is possible"?
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"Most people are not really free." What about you? Ready for more?
What it comes down to is "I would have to meet new people, learn new things, and see new places." Hmm, isn't that part of the adventure of life?
We do tend to confine ourselves by the narrowness of our visions. It's not our fault really, it's the way of our culture. We are taught to "Don't get your hopes up" or to "Be realistic" or "Stay grounded in reality."
When you expand your vision to anything's possible,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you start to receive opportunities. You then have to accept the opportunity before you. I know people who dreamed of a better job and then it came along, yet they were afraid to accept it and talked themselves out of it. "I would have a longer commute." "I would have a change in my hours." "I would have to take a class and learn something new... "
The child who dreamed of a being a preacher, a teacher, or a fashion designer, had to open up to the possibility and then do something about it.
Close your eyes and see your name on that book cover. See your bank account with more zeroes. See yourself standing on the stage sharing your heart and your message. See yourself on the beach with your sweetie pie watching the sunset. See yourself on a gondola in Venice. See your smiling face wearing that cap and gown, or wedding dress, or holding that baby.
Not such great advice.
We carve out a spot where we tell ourselves it's safe. We convince ourselves this is enough. If you are happy with that, I give you my love. If you know you want more,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], please hear me. I'm talking to you. Anything is possible.
You may have been raised to limit yourself to few possibilities. That was then,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], this is now. Now it's up to you. The only binds now are the ones you put on yourself.
Stay grounded in your reality, your vision for yourself, your great big dreams. That's the anchor you need. Get your hopes up and do something "realistic" to take you there.
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Everywhere you go, you find articles which tells you how to improve your life, books telling you what you have not been doing for your life to be what you want it to be, and pamphlets to meetings to discuss those books, what you do not come across often is what not to do.
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Getting psychiatric help is sometimes difficult and almost always very expensive. If you are finding that you need relationship help or other types of counseling,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you will find that the cost is often rather high and the appointments can be difficult to get. Once you are working on an issue with a therapist,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you might still use self help tactics to get through.
Dealing with the problems of life each day can lead to several issues when things build up. As you look for solutions to different types of problems, you will find that there are a number of ways you can help yourself, even as you are waiting for an appointment with a therapist. Deciding to use self help techniques will be useful any time you are feeling stressed or overwhelmed.
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Self help gurus offer a range of assistance for many different things today. As you consider the range of options that you will have,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you might find that this alternative method is very useful any time you are feeling overwhelmed by problems. Regardless of what issue you are facing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], there are a number of things that you will find to get the help you need.
Many different challenges face people these days, especially with the state of the economy. As you might begin feeling stressed over money and other challenges, you might find you need psychiatric help to resolve a problem. Getting relationship help is also an option when you are having trouble with this area of your life.
As you look at the options you will have to solve problems,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you might consider counseling as an alternative. Because therapists are often very busy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you might find it difficult to get an appointment when you need it. Today there are often very long waiting periods before you can even get your initial interview with a clinic.
The use of self help techniques can help you resolve problems and lead to a positive end result for you in any area of your life. Because you may need to make some dramatic changes,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you want to be able to handle those changes easily to avoid creating more problems. For some, getting help with their relationships might mean ending the relationship,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which can cause a good deal more stress.
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Working through problems is going to take some time, but getting started on it is going to be important. As you look to others for advice,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you might find that once you come to terms with the issues,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], solutions come much easier. For example, if you are experiencing stress due to financial problems,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you must come to terms with the fact that you need more money before you can get on with the task of earning more.
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PROGRAM/OFFER: During the initial consultation, review the program offer, the structure and results/outcomes. The length of the program, how the components will be delivered and what will be covered during the program need to be clearly defined and available in writing to the client.
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Life Application Study Bible–KJV Ebook is one of the popular Ebooks on King James' Bible,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which is 1990 Gold Medallion Award winner. It is the number one selling Bible of the present age and explains the relevance of the Scriptures in the present age. God’s words can be understood as the book contains thousands of life application notes. It also encourages the readers to apply the truth of Scripture to personal life.
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The Ebooks on King James' Bible are available at discounted prices due to which these become quite affordable,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. One can also download these religious books and read them any time and any place.
The King James Study Bible Ebook authored by Thomas Nelson is a 2206 pages ebook and one of the popular Ebooks on King James' Bible, It contains notes and commentaries from reputed scholars. A broad understanding of the Bible is provided by more than 5,700 annotations. It also relates to the present society. The book contains centre column reference to clarify the difficult topics. All words of Jesus are in red color,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which helps in identifying them easily. 48 in–text maps and 8 pages of full–color maps,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and 28–page concordance and index to annotation are the highlights of this book.
In the present age,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], technological development has made life simpler. Those who have passion to read can go for ebooks instead of paper books due to many advantages. Religious people who have regular habit of reading the Bible can go for ebooks as these are easy to carry. One can also read an ebook while traveling with the help of electronic devices. Ebooks can be read on laptop,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], computers,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], tablets and many other electronic devices. Ebooks on King James' Bible are for those,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], who wants to remain close to God. New Camb Paragraph Bible & Apoc KJV Ebook; The King James Study Bible Ebook and Life Application Study Bible–KJV Ebook are some of the popular Ebooks on King James' Bible,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which are popular among readers.
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New Camb Paragraph Bible & Apoc KJV Ebook written by David Norton is the King James Bible’s standard edition of 1611, which also contains elements of the Oxford edition of 1769. The book provides the readers the idea of seventeenth–century text in mid–eighteenth century clothes. In order to provide idea of the exact text of the translators,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the text has been assembled with the original work of the translator. To make it easier to read, it has been written in simple language. The standard edition of this book is quite difficult to read. Hence, while the New Camb Paragraph Bible & Apoc KJV Ebook has been written,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the author has taken care of the language factor. The text which is presented in the paragraph style contains marginal notes for easy reference.
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Corporate downsizing persists More and more companies are outsourcing, Ignoring long term tasks is the cause of long term demise because competitors who do pay now to fly later, The world’s largest industrial corporation was officially one hundred years old in 2008.
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It just comes! That is the miracle of it."
Reprinted from Alcoholics Anonymous [Second Edition], pp. 84-85
In collaboration with others,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and from personal experience, we came up with a coaching model we call the "Co-Creative Process of Life Recovery". While the Process helps those with addictions, it also works for any person who wants life improvement and personal growth. Want a better job? It works. Want better personal relationships? It works. Want less stress and worry? It works. Want to conquer fear and resentments? It works. Is anger an issue in your life? It works. Shockingly, the process works to improve almost every life situation.
We will seldom be interested in liquor (Or old behaviours).If tempted,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we recoil from it as from a hot flame.
For by this time sanity will have returned.
We coach success and guarantee results to our clients. We only take on clients who are committed to work at what they consider to be success in the areas they want improvement in, who are prepared to be totally honest and where chemistry between coach and client is good. The real pleasure in our work comes from seeing clients set, and achieve, THEIR goals!
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There are people with good natural athletic ability. Those who achieve great success in their sport do it by using a coach to help them maximize their talent. If they allow the coach to coach, and do the work,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they achieve maximum performance in their particular sport. The same holds true in all areas of life where a person has to perform and wants to do their best!
For it is not only those with a drinking problem who benefit from incorporating the principles of the 12 step program into their lives; EVERY human being can benefit. A well known PhD in psychology and a practising forensic psychologist once said to me,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "I could not give any person a better model for good mental hygiene than the 12 steps" (Dr. Ruth M. Bray). Maybe that is why the AA program has been used in founding 150 or more self-help groups with millions of people involved globally! It just happens to work.
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The procedure uses a specially designed HANA® (hip and knee arthroplasty) orthopaedics table, which allows the surgeon to manipulate the patient’s leg to access the hip from the front, instead of the back. During the operation, the orthopedic surgeon willreplace the hip joint between muscles, as opposed toseparating muscles from the pelvis and femur. Maintaining the muscle attachment is crucial to the patient experiencing less post-surgical pain and greater hip joint stability.
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The anterior approach to hip replacement is a minimally invasive surgery that results in less tissue damage than what would occur during traditional surgery.This is of particular importance for patients who want to recover swiftly and return to work or activities sooner,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].The anterior approach also leads to shorter hospital stays and less risk for hip dislocation.
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Myopia is determined using the results from this test along with results from other tests. At the same time the optometrist will also determine the power of any lens correction needed to provide clear vision. Once testing is complete, your optometrist can discuss options for treatment.
Although it is not proven that myopia is heredited, if one or both parents are nearsighted, there is an increased chance their children will be nearsighted.
Using an instrument called a phoropter, the optometrist places a series of lenses in front of your eyes and measures how they focus light using a hand held lighted instrument called a retinoscope. Nowadays many optometrists use an automated instrument, which automatically determines the focussing power of the eye. The power is then refined by patient’s responses to determine the lenses that allow the clearest vision.
Most people with myopia choose for eyeglasses or contact lenses. Generally, a single vision lens is prescribed to provide clear vision at all distances. Bifocal or progressive addition lenses are also used for patients over about age 40 or children and adults whose myopia is due to the stress of near vision work. These multifocal lenses provide different powers or strengths throughout the lens to allow for clear vision in the distance and also clear vision up close.
Although eyeglasses or contacts are frequently used to correct myopia they do not address the problem but only the symptoms. Wearing glasses makes your eyes lazy as the lenses do all the focusing your eye muscles normally do. This results in weaker eye muscles. As it is these muscles that cause clear sight it is very likely your eyesight will worsen over time. Ever noticed many people need to go back to the optometrist to get stronger prescriptions after they start wearing glasses or contact lenses.
Natural Vision Improvement techniques have been reported to be effective by people suffering from myopia.
These techniques are based on the so-called Bates Method,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], developed by an eye surgeon in the 1920's. He discovered that helping people to relax their eyes and strengthen the eye muscles they were able to improve their eyesight dramatically.
Though general practitioners claim this method can not be effective, testimonials from people who have tried these techniques prove otherwise. There is also related scientific evidence:
"Subjects often stated that they had experienced the ability to make eye contact (without correction) with people across a room or street; they could see buildings and windows clearly without glasses many miles across San Francisco Bay,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or in the case of high diopter myopes (> -4.0 diopters) they were able to read books easily at arms length." - Balliet, PHD, et al. The training of visual acuity in myopia. Journal of the American Optometric Association.
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Myopia diagnosis
The actual development however may be affected by how a person uses his or her eyes. People who spend considerable time doing intense close visual work like reading,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], working at a computer, are more likely to develop myopia.
Symptoms of myopia
False or "pseudo" myopia may occur when doing an excessive amount of near vision work. This blurred distance vision is caused by over use of the eyes’ focusing mechanism. After long periods of near work, the eyes become 'locked' - being unable to refocus to see clearly in the distance. Usually this is only temporary and after resting the eyes clear distance vision usually returns. However,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], over time constant visual stress by doing lots of close work often leads to a permanent reduction in distance vision: myopia.
Variations in blood sugar levels in people with diabetes can cause symptoms of nearsightedness and can indicate a developing cataract.
An eye exam consists of using a phoropter and retinoscope to determine the lenses that allow the clearest vision. The patient has to identify letters on an eyechart (Snellen chart) which then measures visual acuity written as a fraction such as 20/40. The top number indicates the standard distance in feet at which testing is performed (20 feet). The bottom number indicates the smallest letters that the patient can read. A person with 20/40 visual acuity can identify letters at a distance of 20 feet where a person with a “normal” eye could read the letters at a distance of 40 feet. Normal, clear sight is 20/20, although many people have 20/15 (better) vision.
A common sign of myopia is difficulty with seeing objects far away clearly. Next to blurry vision, people suffering from myopia are often seen squinting their eyes to see clearly.
Testing for nearsightedness includes measuring how the eyes focus light determining the power of any optical lenses needed to correct the reduced vision.
Myopia is a very common vision condition. Although some research supports the theory that nearsightedness is hereditary,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], there is growing evidence that it is influenced by the visual stress of too much close work.
Myopia, shortsightedness or nearsightedness is a vision condition whereby one can see close objects clearly, but objects farther away appear blurred. Nearsightedness occurs if the eyeball is too long or the cornea, the clear front cover of the eye, has too much curvature. Light entering the eye isn’t focused correctly on the retina, but in front of the retina and distant objects look blurred. Nearsightedness is a type of refractive error of the eye, not a disease. The opposite defect of myopia is hyperopia or "farsightedness" or "longsightedness" — this is where the cornea is too flat or the eye is too short.
Testing is moslty done without the use of eye drops to determine how the eyes respond under normal seeing conditions. In some cases however, eye drops are used. This can include situations where a patient can’t respond verbally,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or when some of the eye’s focusing power may be hidden. Eyedrops prevent the eyes from changing focus while testing is performed.
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Myopia is often discovered first in school-age children who report having trouble seeing the chalkboard. Because the eye continues to grow during childhood, myopia typically progresses until about age 20. However, nearsightedness also occurs in adults due to visual stress or health conditions such as diabetes.
What causes myopia
Some people may experience blurred distance vision only at night. "Night myopia” may be due to low levels of light making it difficult for the eyes to focus properly or an increased pupil size during dark conditions, allowing more peripheral, unfocused light rays to enter the eye.
- Optometrist Dr Robert-Michael Kaplan co-investigated a study demonstrating improvements of visual acuity as a result of relaxation, stating "…myopic persons could be trained to produce relaxation, which results in sharper visual acuities…"
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Through a variety of methods, such as hypnosis, yoga, working with a personal trainer, or taking cooking lessons, clients can work toward their goals. Seeing that you can lose weight in a week will motivate you to take the knowledge that you gain back home with you. That knowledge can provide a basis for a new way to think about diet,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], weight gain, and health. If you form the right habits,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you can be healthy and happy with your weight.
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Routines become ingrained in everyone, and the more a person becomes used to a certain way of doing things, the harder it is to break free from it. With weight gain a significant problem for so many people, the idea that the answer is nothing more than "eat less and exercise" feels superficial. Of course eating less and exercising is the goal, but eating is not something that a person can quit "cold turkey,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]," so learning how to eat less can actually be a complicated thing.
A good weight loss camp is not just a chance to get away from fast food for a while,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but a chance to renew your relationship to food. Yes, you will be able to lose weight in a week, but what matters even more is that you can learn to have a healthy diet, have good physical habits and maintain the kind of body you want. The key
You may find that what makes the most difference in your life is becoming a better chef, or learning about the right kinds of ingredients to use in your food. Or perhaps what you need is a strong arm to force you out of bed and onto the running track every morning. Whatever it is,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if you spend time at a weight loss camp with all of these opportunities,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you can consider which ones are most important for your long term lifestyle changes.
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What about you? How can you make more time for your family? Perhaps instead of taking your kids to ceramics, you can instead have an art class at home with a little paint,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], glue and glitter. You can teach culinary skills by gathering all of the kids in the kitchen to cook breakfast or dinner. These are the kinds of activities young children need. They need time with their mom and their dad.
For all of you out there who truly enjoy running and chasing, continue doing what feels right for you. But don’t continue running around like your hair is on fire if you think that your children NEED those activities.
When I talked to my team member the other day, I told her to let the activities go. Instead of being gone three nights a week, I suggested she use those three nights for family time. I advised her to throw a blanket on her living room floor and have a picnic dinner. If they want to go somewhere, instead of ballet class, I encouraged her to take the kids to the park. If they want to be a part of a team, I told her they could be a good Samaritan team, and volunteer in the community.
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I remember when our youngest daughter was five and starting dance class. They told me she needed three separate classes to be a “well rounded” dancer. At five years old, all we wanted was her to have fun. We didn’t have visions of her dancing on Broadway. They were always appalled that I would just put her in ballet, one day a week,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as opposed to adding jazz and tap. I chose the class with the quietest shoes. To add to the insanity, after six lessons,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], she would whine because she didn’t want to go to class. Yet I continued year after year to sign her up again.
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Wrong! How many of these activities did your parents haul you around to when you were growing up? Mine, none. And as it turns out, I ended up ok. I participated in school related activities and athletic events,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but I didn’t have the schedule of: Dance Monday, Piano Tuesday, Karate Wednesday, Soccer Thursday, and Slumber Party Friday, topped off with two separate birthday parties on Saturday.
She had recently learned the father of her children was no longer going to be able to help her financially. To make matters worse,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he was also no longer going to be able to help transport their kids to various activities. She was devastated.
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Balance is Key
As a single mom, supporting three young kids, the crux of the problem was that she would no longer be able to keep the kids in dance and karate. Not only was she now lacking the funds, but she was now also lacking the time to get them to and from the events. The thought of telling her children they would not be able to attend these things was making her feel like a horrible mom.
Call us boring, call us selfish, but our idea of family fun is laughing in the kitchen while cooking dinner,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], telling silly stories after homework and Saturday nights spent playing board games until the wee hours of the night. And when our five kiddos look back at their childhood memories, I doubt that they will feel neglected for missing out on a slumber party or even miss the consolation trophy they would have received from eight Saturdays spent playing soccer.
Now, don’t misunderstand what I am saying. There is value and strong teaching in team sports and many other activities our children participate in. But as parents trying to keep up with the Jones Family,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], sometimes we forget to build on the family we have.
Now we have a balance. We don’t discourage our kids from getting involved in school activities, but there has to be a balance between home life and activities. I am not super mom flying with her cape from one activity to another. We spend quiet, and sometimes loud and crazy, evenings at home intermixed with an occasional special event. Life is much easier, and we don’t feel bad about it. We do not have to keep up with any other families. All we have to keep up with is our own family values.
Dancing into a Lesson
As a parent, do you ever feel like you suffer from chauffeur syndrome? Dance lessons, slumber parties,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], baseball games, fund raisers, piano lessons, birthday parties, karate class, soccer practice and on and on and on sometimes makes you feel like you were put on this earth to be a chauffeur. On top of the huge time investment, these activities are quite costly as well. But what can you do? Joey and Katie’s parents have them each in four activities a week. It would be borderline neglect for you to not do the same, right?
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As it turns out,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you are not neglecting your children when you tell them no. You are parenting them and teaching them values. To be well rounded individuals, children do not have to participate in a bizillion activities outside of the home. To be well rounded individuals with good values, they need activities within the home. Surprisingly,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the most important thing to your child is your time. You are the one who should be teaching them.
Chauffeur Syndrome
I can only imagine this calamity isn’t unique to our house. How many of you are now dragging your kids to activities you both thought were a super idea back in August, but now the idea isn’t as great?
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